Hello, I'm Melissa Wasik.
In my early years, I faced much adversity…both at home and in school, which affected my relationships later on in life with family members, friends, coworkers and significant others. Not to mention, overall new experiences which came into play. I allowed those narrowed perceptions and beliefs of what took place dictate how my life is to unfold, failing to see the purpose for such experiences given and that I even had the power of choice as to how to handle these situations and determine its outcome. I also bought into stories which I have heard or were carried down from one generation to the next of their fears and false perceptions. Thus, with such experiences built up over time, I allowed these fear-based perceptions of lack, unworthiness, and abuse that had taken place in my life aid in my determination to prove to people I am enough and would go to great lengths to justify such desired approval and acceptance.
By the age of 28, I allowed that driven imbalance to "work" for me and became a successful business woman who made my way to VP in the financial industry, I had a wonderful husband, beautiful home, amazing family and friends. I thought I had “arrived” and was finally living the dream....my dream. This I thought would heal me of my past hurts and show to myself and others once and for all…. I am enough.
By the time I reached the age of 34 and such “successes” were achieved, there was a stirring within me. I found myself wanting more. Yet at first, I didn’t know what that would be. It was like a void I couldn’t put a name or identity to. A depression started to set in, yet it was during this time I slowly, began to see a need in understanding of why we are really here. What’s the purpose in all of this? I wanted to know more about myself and how I fit in with all that exists. I felt a need to revisit the purpose of Our Father Creator. For the religious foundations I initially I grew up with painted this Deity more as an unholy tyrant than a loving creator...one to be feared and cower to… a Deity I wanted to avoid altogether. Over time, I began to realized how either consciously and unconsciously all I had been doing was really in vain. Deep down, already as a child, I knew who I desired to be and what really mattered. Yet I let my fears and hurts override those desires. I’ve always held a heart’s desire to help people, animals and our environment and simply wanting to make a positive difference in this world. Not going into a career that was all about prestige or making money for myself. I didn’t care for materialism as a kid or as an adult. I was just content with having love, laughter and joy in my life. Yet, in my adult years, I bought and spend with a means to prove or justify my worth. I often worked hard to please others so they would be happy with me and I could be happy with myself. In so doing, I lost sight of who I was and what I really wanted out of this life. With all of this, I knew I needed answers and was ready to go the distance once more but this time it was to find me…to find inner peace and to follow that stirring to get me where I truly wanted to be in self and within this world around us.
It was not long after, the sense of security I once attained and believed was needed in order to be happy, successful or to insure my ways of life organically came to an end. My marriage of 11 ½ years was no longer. Shortly after my divorce, I lost my job due to cutbacks and was having difficulty making ends meet, while trying to find work during the lean years when the economy had taken a hit. My life started to spiral downward and I didn't know where to turn.
When I visited my family in Kingston, Ontario in the years 2014 and again in 2015... I went through a series of life-altering changes. Through these visitations, I was brought into alignment with other very gifted souls who helped me to realize when people come to an end of one journey/experience or when life starts spiraling downward is when a new life is ready to emerge and be explored... taking on new ways… an “Awakening”. For, as we each come into our awakening… it is not just a time of healing and letting go what no longer serves us, but a way of life and being in self…our innate self. This brought on a whole new lifestyle choice from where I had once come to know, understand and be all these years prior. It was during this time, I began to see that we ALL are spiritual beings/energies of light. That we ALL possess the natural abilities to heal... we ALL have psychic attributes/a sixth sense. We innately have all these traits since we were born! That this was not left to only “some chosen few”. That we ALL have the ability to live productive, satisfying, healthy... balanced lives! That we can truly live freely... free from all the fears and undue the stories that were once told, fed to us or created by our limited concepts and perceptions. That we are all truly enough just as we are. We don't need to prove ourselves or justify who we are. For we are made by purpose and design for ourselves and others in which to learn and grow. To honor and know ourselves... to be accepting of such gifted souls we are and desire to be, allows us the life we are all truly meant to live.
From this point forward is when my spiritual journey really began to take flight in the most profound and even moments of unorthodox ways. I became awakened to all that I am now and will continue to enhance/uncover throughout the remainder of my stay here on this Earthly plane. I became Certified as a Reiki Master/Teacher and later found my calling as a Holistic Mentor and Adviser. I had also become known for my Mediumship and Channeling abilities and will offer them upon request.
In the years since I have started this most amazing journey, I continue to periodically take myself off the grid to further my growth in self and align with All That Is on much deeper levels. Through all the methods I currently possess, helps me to teach and share with others we are truly spiritual beings having a human experience. To come to this place of knowing and being will set you free! It is time we all live the way we were meant to live and I am pleased to share what I have learned through books I am writing, private sessions held and in the coming months and years with group sessions held for all to partake in!
I sincerely look forward to meeting you along our journey!
Much Love and Light to all,