Hello, I'm Melissa Wasik.
In my earlier years, I was faced with much adversity…both at home and in school, which affected the vast majority of all my relationships later on in life, not to mention, the new experiences which would come into play. I allowed those perceptions and beliefs of what took place back then dictate how my life is to unfold, failing to see the grander purpose for such experiences given and that I even had the power of choice as to how to handle these varied situations and its outcome. I also bought into stories which I have heard or were carried down from one generation to the next of their fears and false perceptions of the realities they faced. Thus, with such experiences built up over time, I allowed these fear-based perceptions of lack, unworthiness, and abuse fuel my determination to prove to people I am enough and would go to great lengths to justify such desired approval and acceptance.
By the age of 28, I allowed that driven imbalance to "work" for me and became a successful business woman who made my way to VP in the financial industry, I had a wonderful husband, beautiful home, amazing family and friends. I thought I had “arrived” and was finally living the dream....my dream. This I thought would heal me of my past hurts and show to myself and others once and for all…. I am enough.
Over time, I began to realize both consciously and unconsciously all I had been doing was really in vain. It was no wonder why my life led me to feel more alone and unsatisfied. For, already as a child, I knew who I desired to be in self. To simply be myself with no sense of need to "put on airs" to gain approval or acceptance. I had a sense for what really mattered. I didn’t care for materialism as a kid nor did I really as an adult. I was just content with having love, laughter and joy in my life. I’ve always held a heart’s desire to help people, animals and our environment and simply wanting to make a positive difference in this world. Not going into a career that was all about prestige or making a ton of money for myself. Yet, I let my fears and hurts of the past override those desires. I bought and spent with a means to prove or justify my worth. I often worked hard to please others so they would be happy with me and I could be happy with myself. In so doing, I lost sight of who I was and what I really wanted out of this life. When depression had set upon me due to not living in my truth nor following my desires, it gave me the blessings to realize there had to be more to life than this. I had to live more wholly, more consciously. I knew It was time to get back to the basics... the innocence…me.
It was not long after these realizations set in, the sense of security I once attained and believed was needed in order to be happy, successful or to ensure my ways of life… organically came to an end. My marriage of 11 ½ years was no longer. Shortly after my divorce, I lost my job due to cutbacks and was having difficulty making ends meet, while trying to find work during the lean years when the economy had taken a hit. My life started to spiral downward and I didn't know where to turn.
It was at this time, I went to visit my family in Kingston, Ontario in the years 2014 and again in 2015... I went through a series of life-altering changes. Through these visitations, I was brought into alignment with very gifted souls who I knew or met along the way which helped me to realize when people come to an end of one journey/experience or when life starts spiraling downward is when a new life is ready to emerge and be explored... taking on new ways… an “Awakening”. For, as we each come into our awakening… it is not just a time of healing and letting go what no longer serves us, but a way of life and being in self…our innate self. This brought on a whole new lifestyle choice from where I had once come to know. It was during this time; I began to see that we ALL are spiritual beings/energies of light. That we ALL possess the natural abilities to heal... we ALL have psychic attributes/a sixth sense. We innately have all these traits since we were born! That this was not left to only “some chosen few”. That we ALL have the ability to live productive, satisfying, healthy... balanced lives! That we can truly live freely... free from all the fears and undue the stories that were once told, fed to us or created by our limited concepts and perceptions. That we are all truly enough just as we are. We don't need to prove ourselves or justify who we are. For we are made by purpose and design for ourselves and others in which to learn and grow. To honor and know ourselves... to be accepting of such gifted souls we are and desire to be, allows us the life we are all truly meant to live.
From this point forward is when my spiritual journey really began to take flight in the most profound and even moments of unorthodox ways. I became awakened to all that I am now and will continue to enhance/uncover throughout the remainder of my stay here on this Earthly plane. I became Certified as a Reiki Master/Teacher and known for my Mediumship and Channeling abilities. Later into my career, I found my calling as a Holistic Mentor and Adviser.
Since I have started this most amazing journey, I'm known to periodically take myself off the grid each year to further my growth in self and learn more tools, sharpening them. For it is through these precious times of growth and learning that all allows me to share and teach others how to have this human experience as spiritual beings. To come to this place of knowing and being will set you free! It is time we all live the way we were meant to live and I am pleased to share what I have learned through books I am progressively writing, private sessions held and in the coming months and years with group sessions held for all to partake in!
I sincerely look forward to meeting you along our journey!
Much Love and Light to all,
Melissa Wasik
In my earlier years, I was faced with much adversity…both at home and in school, which affected the vast majority of all my relationships later on in life, not to mention, the new experiences which would come into play. I allowed those perceptions and beliefs of what took place back then dictate how my life is to unfold, failing to see the grander purpose for such experiences given and that I even had the power of choice as to how to handle these varied situations and its outcome. I also bought into stories which I have heard or were carried down from one generation to the next of their fears and false perceptions of the realities they faced. Thus, with such experiences built up over time, I allowed these fear-based perceptions of lack, unworthiness, and abuse fuel my determination to prove to people I am enough and would go to great lengths to justify such desired approval and acceptance.
By the age of 28, I allowed that driven imbalance to "work" for me and became a successful business woman who made my way to VP in the financial industry, I had a wonderful husband, beautiful home, amazing family and friends. I thought I had “arrived” and was finally living the dream....my dream. This I thought would heal me of my past hurts and show to myself and others once and for all…. I am enough.
Over time, I began to realize both consciously and unconsciously all I had been doing was really in vain. It was no wonder why my life led me to feel more alone and unsatisfied. For, already as a child, I knew who I desired to be in self. To simply be myself with no sense of need to "put on airs" to gain approval or acceptance. I had a sense for what really mattered. I didn’t care for materialism as a kid nor did I really as an adult. I was just content with having love, laughter and joy in my life. I’ve always held a heart’s desire to help people, animals and our environment and simply wanting to make a positive difference in this world. Not going into a career that was all about prestige or making a ton of money for myself. Yet, I let my fears and hurts of the past override those desires. I bought and spent with a means to prove or justify my worth. I often worked hard to please others so they would be happy with me and I could be happy with myself. In so doing, I lost sight of who I was and what I really wanted out of this life. When depression had set upon me due to not living in my truth nor following my desires, it gave me the blessings to realize there had to be more to life than this. I had to live more wholly, more consciously. I knew It was time to get back to the basics... the innocence…me.
It was not long after these realizations set in, the sense of security I once attained and believed was needed in order to be happy, successful or to ensure my ways of life… organically came to an end. My marriage of 11 ½ years was no longer. Shortly after my divorce, I lost my job due to cutbacks and was having difficulty making ends meet, while trying to find work during the lean years when the economy had taken a hit. My life started to spiral downward and I didn't know where to turn.
It was at this time, I went to visit my family in Kingston, Ontario in the years 2014 and again in 2015... I went through a series of life-altering changes. Through these visitations, I was brought into alignment with very gifted souls who I knew or met along the way which helped me to realize when people come to an end of one journey/experience or when life starts spiraling downward is when a new life is ready to emerge and be explored... taking on new ways… an “Awakening”. For, as we each come into our awakening… it is not just a time of healing and letting go what no longer serves us, but a way of life and being in self…our innate self. This brought on a whole new lifestyle choice from where I had once come to know. It was during this time; I began to see that we ALL are spiritual beings/energies of light. That we ALL possess the natural abilities to heal... we ALL have psychic attributes/a sixth sense. We innately have all these traits since we were born! That this was not left to only “some chosen few”. That we ALL have the ability to live productive, satisfying, healthy... balanced lives! That we can truly live freely... free from all the fears and undue the stories that were once told, fed to us or created by our limited concepts and perceptions. That we are all truly enough just as we are. We don't need to prove ourselves or justify who we are. For we are made by purpose and design for ourselves and others in which to learn and grow. To honor and know ourselves... to be accepting of such gifted souls we are and desire to be, allows us the life we are all truly meant to live.
From this point forward is when my spiritual journey really began to take flight in the most profound and even moments of unorthodox ways. I became awakened to all that I am now and will continue to enhance/uncover throughout the remainder of my stay here on this Earthly plane. I became Certified as a Reiki Master/Teacher and known for my Mediumship and Channeling abilities. Later into my career, I found my calling as a Holistic Mentor and Adviser.
Since I have started this most amazing journey, I'm known to periodically take myself off the grid each year to further my growth in self and learn more tools, sharpening them. For it is through these precious times of growth and learning that all allows me to share and teach others how to have this human experience as spiritual beings. To come to this place of knowing and being will set you free! It is time we all live the way we were meant to live and I am pleased to share what I have learned through books I am progressively writing, private sessions held and in the coming months and years with group sessions held for all to partake in!
I sincerely look forward to meeting you along our journey!
Much Love and Light to all,
Melissa Wasik
"We are not human beings having a spiritual experience. We are spiritual beings having a human experience."